If you’ve been creating content regularly, showing up with tips and value, and still hearing crickets when it comes to actual sales, you’re not alone. You might be watching your Instagram engagement rise—people are liking your posts, saving them, and even sending you “I’m watching you!” messages in your DMs. But when you check your Stripe account or email inbox, the silence is loud. The truth? Creating content that brings in followers is not the same as creating content that brings in buyers.
This is a trap so many women in business fall into. You think you’re doing all the right things. You’re being helpful, consistent, and showing up with value. But still, it feels like all you’re doing is attracting fans instead of clients. Here’s why that’s happening—and how to fix it fast.
Let’s get straight to it: lurkers are not the ones paying for your services. Buyers are. And when your content keeps pulling in lurkers, there’s a reason. It’s usually because the message is too vague, too polished, or too focused on being “nice” rather than being clear. You’re trying so hard not to offend or repel anyone that you end up attracting no one specific—and in business, specificity is everything.
Here’s the thing about creating content: if it doesn’t clearly say who it’s for, what it’s about, and what someone should do next, it gets lost in the scroll. You might get a save or a like, but that doesn’t translate to income. And for most online entrepreneurs, especially women, this disconnect stems from the instinct to prove they’re helpful instead of actually guiding someone to a decision.
A lot of coaches, creatives, and service providers create content that’s safe. It makes people nod in agreement, maybe even hit the share button. But it doesn’t move anyone forward. It doesn’t spark a DM, a click, or a purchase.
Because helpful is not the same as clear.
Creating content that converts requires clarity—not just in what you’re saying, but in who you’re saying it to. You’re not just here to educate. You’re here to lead someone toward a solution they’ve been searching for.
So how do you do that?
This is a core concept I teach in the Buyers vs. Lurkers Workbook, and it’s helped shift more content creators from “I’m watching you” to “I’m ready to hire you.”
Here’s the simple premise:
Every piece of content you put out is doing one of two things:
One feeds your ego. The other feeds your business.
And the good news? You get to choose which one your content is doing. It starts by being honest about the purpose behind every post, story, or email.
Let’s take a basic example.
Instead of saying:
“5 tips to feel more energized”
Try something like:
“This post isn’t for the woman googling how to stop being tired. It’s for the woman who’s done with burnout and ready to feel alive again. DM me ‘RESET’ and I’ll walk you through the next step.”
The first one is helpful. It’ll probably get saved or shared.
The second? It speaks directly to a specific kind of reader. It calls her forward. And most importantly, it tells her exactly what to do next.
This is how you start creating content that converts. You shift from broadcasting tips to making direct invitations.
If you’re not sure where to start, here are three caption prompts you can use this week to speak to action-takers—not just observers:
1. “This post isn’t for the lurkers. It’s for the woman who’s DONE waiting.”
→ Fill in what she’s sick of
→ Share what you help her do instead
2. “Let’s talk about the difference between interested and invested.”
→ Describe what each looks like in real life
→ Ask your audience where they stand
3. “Not everyone is ready. But if you are, you’ll feel this in your body.”
→ Speak directly to the woman who already knows she’s meant for more
These kinds of prompts aren’t just cute caption ideas. They’re connection points. They signal to the right person that you see her, you get her, and you’re ready when she is.
Want more where that came from? You can grab the full set of templates and examples in the Buyers vs. Lurkers Workbook, along with a video walkthrough that shows how to build this into your weekly content planning.
The biggest mistake I see is believing the answer is to churn out even more posts, reels, stories, and carousels. But more content won’t solve the problem if what you’re creating isn’t driving decisions.
Creating content that works for your business means being brave enough to speak directly to the woman who’s already close to a buying decision. It means being willing to repel the passive scrollers in order to connect with the ones who are ready to invest.
That’s not about being pushy. It’s about being clear.
And when you do that, everything starts to shift. You’ll notice your comments changing. Your DMs getting more specific. And yes, your revenue starting to reflect the effort you’re putting in.
So if you’re tired of creating content that gets saved but not acted on, it’s time to take a different approach.
Your voice isn’t meant to fade into the noise. It’s meant to lead.
If you would like to learn how to be a pro at creating content that converts your lurkers into buyers, reach to me! I have resources and programs that can help you get where you want to go in your business, quickly.
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